There are other places besides nursing homes where you or a loved one can get the necessary care; home health care, assisted living, and adult day care are also options. The hospice movement, also, has grown over the past two decades in the United States, as patients who are terminally ill are choosing more and more to die at home rather than in the hospital, where the environment can be sterile and unfeeling. More and more hospitals are providing hospice services, home health care, and adult day-care as a part of their long-term care options.

Who Decides?

Putting a parent or loved one into a nursing home brings a whole set of anxieties along with it. Who decides where they go? Who decides it's time? Everybody involved--children, parents, caregivers, patients--should discuss the options. Try to arrive at a consensus among you to avoid hard feelings that can arise if a parent, for instance, is reluctant to go into a home, or if a caregiver feels unable to continue, or feels guilty about putting someone in. By examining your options you should feel better about your decision and make you feel that you've explored all the long-term care avenues open to you.

Economics of Nursing Homes

Unfortunately, there are lots of financial issues at stake when deciding to put someone in a nursing home. It costs a lot of money to maintain an elderly person in poor health for an indefinite period of time. Medicare will only pay for nursing home care if the patient goes in after being hospitalized; even then, the benefits are limited. When they run out, and the patient's finances are depleted, Medicaid will pick up the costs, but certain nursing homes limit the number of Medicaid patients it will take in. They prefer to take "private-pay" patients. Be sure to find out whether the nursing home of your choice has beds for both Medicare and Medicaid patients.

Nursing Homes Close To Home

Where are the best nursing homes near you? It is sometimes easier to put someone who needs care into a nursing home if the home is close to you. If you or a loved one is considering long- or short-term nursing home care, find out which homes are in your area. Are you planning to retire to a warm state in the Sun Belt? to Florida? Check those states to see what's available.

Not for Good and Not Just for Old People

Nursing homes are not just for old people--they often admit younger patients who are recovering from accidents, or need other short-term care. The mentally challenged can also find themselves in nursing homes for short- or long-term care. When looking for a particular nursing home, check to see which homes near you have short-term beds for the ill, the mentally impaired, and younger patients, depending on your needs.

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